Networking – The Surest Way to Stay Poor?
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that all networking is bad.
In fact, the opposite can be true.
For a good local business, networking effectively in and around your local area can be a really smart way to find new people and new introducers of business to you. However, as with many things in life, it has a downside. You see, in my experience, a lot of the businesspeople that go to local networking events are “little thinkers” who will be forever stuck in a “little world”.
Now I don’t mean this to be derogatory, although some of you will no doubt take it that way. It’s just a statement of fact. Go to any series of local networking events in any town in the country and you’ll start to see some familiar faces. There are businesspeople who spend a lot of time at different networking groups and they never achieve any real success with their business. They are losers and wannabe’s. (Sorry to be so frank, but it’s true, and we both know it.)
It is dangerous to spend too much of your time with these people.
You see, it’s my belief that you become an amalgam of the five people that you spend most of your time with and this means, in a business context, that if you hang around losers and wannabes then over time, as sure as eggs is eggs, you’ll become a loser and a wannabe.
If, on the other hand, you put energy and effort into ensuring that you spend big chunks of your time around successful people, individuals who you aspire to be like and whom you respect, then, over time, you’ll become more like them and that’s why if you become a prolific networker and you mix with the “wrong” type of people too often it can be a sure fire way to ensure that you become poor.
If you think that’s harsh and it offends you then… tough – cos it’s true.